Journal

Notes from the work.

Trauma recovery

6 min read

Naming what hurt you is not betrayal — it's the beginning of healing.

On the quiet, holy work of telling the truth about what happened to us, and why language matters.

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Marriage

5 min read

The arguments that aren't really about the dishes.

Most fights are about safety, respect and being seen. Here's how to find the conversation underneath.

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Leadership

4 min read

You cannot lead a team well from an empty inner life.

Why every serious leader needs an inner discipline — and three questions to start with this week.

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Mental health

3 min read

Rest is not a reward.

Reframing rest as a foundation, not the prize at the end of the to-do list.

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